directorlazard:

rapeculturerealities:

fuckyeahifightlikeagirl:

sweetsugaryshock:

beben-eleben:

For future reference.

Thank you.

For those who would ever need it. -C

reblogging here because i can see this being relevant to anyone who’s ever tried to get out of an abusive relationship

Reblogging because that last comment made me reread the whole thing in a new light and realize this could be vital information. So, putting it out there for everyone, and hoping no one ever really needs it.

weilongfu:

What does reblogging do? Seriously, I’m new to all of this and really just learned how to reboot something but the question remains what does it do for tumblr?

So one of the issues about tumblr (we’ll leave issues in policy, the bad apples, etc aside for now) is people saying that fandoms are dying. If your fandoms on tumblr are dying, then more people are likely to leave the website and go somewhere else to engage in fandom. 

And that’s true, fandoms come and go. It’s a natural part of the cycle.

But part of the reason why fandoms and such die out is that people stop creating material for the fandom. When there’s no more new material for a fandom, it stagnates. When it stagnates too long, people stop being in the fandom. 

But why stop creating? 

Because no one is actively viewing your material and helping to spread it through fandom. Rebloging on tumblr helps other people see what fandom creators are making. It also encourages creators because it gives comments and shows creators how people feel about their work. This is, of course, a double edged sword, but usually commentary is positive. Encouragement is important for people who create because it tells us that we’re doing something that people appreciate. 

Reblogs also do another important thing. They provide visibility to creators. Tags do as well, but searching tags on Tumblr is a special kind of annoying sometimes. I have no idea how the algorithm works sometimes because things I know I’ve tagged never seem to show up in some searches. :shrug: In any case visibility is great because it expands the base of people who look at your work and might appreciate it. They will then also potentially share it. And that’s how things get around in fandom. A chain of people sharing what they love. If you just hit the like button, the spread of content that you might think is spectacular stops and only reaches a tiny corner of fandom, making other parts think fandom is dying because new content is being created, but they aren’t seeing it.

Overall, the spread of new work is important to fandom because it encourages creators and ensures that everyone in fandom sees it at some point. Fandom dies when both things stop happening. 

Also, I did not expect to pause my workday to write this essay and I apologize to everyone for doing it.

Kiss Me – LazyGeisha – 镇魂 | Guardian (TV) [Archive of Our Own]

lazygeisha:

Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: 镇魂 | Guardian (TV)
Rating: Teen And Up Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Guo Chang Cheng/Chu Shu Zhi
Characters: Guo Chang Cheng, Chu Shu Zhi, Zhao Yun Lan, Shěn Wēi
Additional Tags: Romance, Based on Song Lyrics, Swearing
Summary:

“You know you may lose him if you don’t say something to him.” – edited 11/15/18

FYI – NOT NEW STORY: I re-edited this today, having recently reread it, cringing at all the name usage. I changed the style a bit as well, but the content has remained the same. Probably still an over-usage of names, but I’m not Hemingway nor do I want to rewrite the whole thing.

Kiss Me – LazyGeisha – 镇魂 | Guardian (TV) [Archive of Our Own]

15. Teaching the other something

stopwatchplz:

Fic based on prompts in this post

A/N: This is 18+ rated…

Zhao Yunlan lay on the bed, the flickering light from the dozen or so candles around the room playing seductively across his naked body, shadows dancing over his skin. He smiled and reached out with his arms invitingly, encouragingly, but Shen Wei hesitated where he was, kneeling on the end of the bed. He was still mostly dressed, though his shirt was completely undone, his tie and jacket slung over a nearby chair, and it was obvious to Yunlan that Shen Wei felt self-conscious, both with his state of dress and lack of knowledge about how to proceed.

“It’s ok, baby – I’ll talk you through it,” Yunlan said, still reaching out. For a moment it looked like Shen Wei wouldn’t move but slowly, hesitatingly, he began to lean forward, bending down to place his hands on the bed as he slowly moved his body between Yunlan’s legs then higher, until their bodies were pressed together and they lay face to face; for a moment they just lay there, staring into each other’s eyes, and it felt like a lifetime passed between them.

Read more over on my AO3 here